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My
wife, Chipo Siamafuwa of Fort McMurray, Alberta, (originally from
Kafue, Zambia) has taken my son Asher away from me on Nov 20, 2023,
which is the
same day that she committed theft of my property. After she abandoned
me on Nov 20, and since she deprived me of raising my son,
I decided to go to Zambia to check up on the money that I had invested
there. What I discovered was multiple
thefts and frauds that had been committed involving Chipo and Martin
Siamafuwa. There were four properties involved in total. There were 2
duplexes in Kafue that I paid for which are still unaccounted for. This
was my largest expenditure in Zambia. Zero paperwork or
receipts have been produced. If they are honest, then why have they not
produced even one shred of paperwork for the sale of these properties,
if in fact they were sold in the first place, which has not even been
ascertained.
Whichever is the case, there is no paperwork.
Dec 24th,
2024: (I am still in
Zambia and
my wife Chipo is still in Canada) Chipo has (further) declared today
that I am not allowed to come to Canada to be the father to my son.
(This is the 2d Christmas in a row that I am deprived of enjoying with
my son Asher).
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She has taken my son Asher away from me
and uses him as a weapon against me. She uses the police as a threat
because in Canada all a woman has to do is call the police with a false
accusation and the police automatically arrest him.
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On Jan 2d on voice chat my son told me "daddy come back" which broke my heart because how can I explain to him what is happening when he was only 3 years and 9 months old at that time? (I did not leave my son but was forced out by her threats). I have created this website in defense of my son, who has been deprived of his father, and he cannot protest. As his father it is my duty to speak out for him and defend him. I love my son and it hurts me much to have him taken out of my life, and he is hurting also because of this. He also loves, needs, and misses his father. She is living under the delusion that she owns my son like shd wd own a bicycle. I have suffered much emotional pain and suffering as a result of her taking my son away from me.
To appease
her conscience and
attemping to quell the cognitive dissonance within her she seeks the
approval of the her like-minded friends who share the same
wrong mindset, and as a group they regurgitate the same fallacies to
keep propogating the same mindset, and must avoid any outside influence
that may "upset the apple cart" lest they be confronted with a reality
check. A closed circuit mindset tends to grow worse due to feeding on
itself until the methods used to protect it and propogate it within the
group become more extreme. It is a downward spiral. Deep in her heart
she knows that what she has done and is doing is wrong. She is fighting
against herself. The wisest thing for her to do is to come clean and be
honest with herself and others, find refuge in the truth. Only then
will she have peace in her heart.
I have always held the position that we are a family that shd never be broken up. A commitment is a commitment is a commitment. If you are not mature and responsible enuff to keep a commitment then you shd not make it in the first place. There is never any justification or excuse for breaking a commitment. She alone is to blame for her breaking her commitment. Whether a commitment is stated verbally or in writing as such or not, whether made before witnesses or not, the fact remains that commitments and obligations are in place without regard for whether they are made verbally or in writing, or in front of witnesses or not. For example: if a man spends much money on a woman before marriage, then much money (and much work to create that money), it is safe to assume that he is not putting years of time, told, and money into something that he intended to all be taken away from him, otherwise he wd not have begun this in the first place. If a woman is living her life according to Divine Principles, she will not do such a thing as make all his time, effort, and money be lost, and his life devastated by having his children taken away from him. The fact is that most women do not live by Divine Principles and never were committed in the first place. A man has everything to lose by a woman kleaving him and taking everything from him (which is what happened to me), but she herself has NOTHING to lose, but gains much including money and or property and or a healthy baby, which she always keeps for herself. (which is what happened to me.) Motive and opportunity. But she knew this before she married him: it is not by chance that it happens this way, but to cover herself she must find a way to transfer the guilt onto a man, and some commone ways are: "he was not providing for me", or "he ran away from his children, or "he dosn't love me." Men do not abandon their children, but are made to appear to have done so, and this is because the woman blocks him out. Anything to take the focuss off of her. Again, if she did marry a man who ends up mistreating her, then it is HER fault because she was not carefull enuff before marrying him (she had her eyes more on money than on him), and knowing in advance that she can get away with it. Not a bad deal for her: she has much she can gain, but nothing she can lose, and she keeps the raising of the children to herself alone: the greatest trophy of all. Again, if she does not intend to keep her commitment and obligations, she never shd have married him. She alone is to blame here, and it has nothing to do with the man. It has to do with taking the responsibility for your own actions and stop passing the blame onto others. If a woman wd not want someone to treat her like this, then she she not treat other people like this (another Divine Principle). Morally and ethically what she has done is wrong, and this morality and ethics has nothing to do with any court. Courts by their very nature are amoral (without morals). Divine Principles trump everything else. Women attempt to justify their immoral behavior by getting a judge to rubber stamp it.
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As my son had his 4th birthday on April 24, 2024, I have been denied the blessing of being with him for this, and I was not allowed to send him a birthday gift because I am not even told where he (they) are staying. It's the "golden rule": He who has the gold makes the rules.
To my
surprise I was allowed to
video chat with Asher yesterday, June 16, (today is Father's Day) which
was the first time in 3 months, yet other than this I know nothing of
what goes on in his life, and still do not know where he is. I am still
otherwise blocked out of his life. I am told nothing about
him.
Sept
8, 2024, she has declared that she has from now on stopped all
communication with me and I am totally cut off from my son in every
way. This is mental torture.
Nov 3, 2024, I am again accussed of "running away" from my son. What a stupid thing to say! She needs to accuse me of something to take the focus away from her and the fact that she committed marriage fraud and was using me for money, sex, and a ticket to Canada. Am I afraid of him like meeting a hungry lion in the jungle that I will run away from him?! I needn't argue this point because the level of stupidity in her statement speaks for itself.
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Nov
20, 2024 marks one year that my son and I have been
separated,
forced out by my wife. I am totally deprived of him, and know nothing
about him that is going on, and not even allowed to voice chat with
him. I have and am suffering much sorrow, grief, and sadness being
deprived of my son.
Christmas 2024 ... I am deprived of my son for the 2d Christmas
in a
row. I am told nothing about his Christmas there (not that I wd expect
her to tell the truth about it anyway) and not even one foto of him.
Who does she think she is, lording it over me like this, like Asher is
her weapon that she is using against me and is
making me suffer in anguish and as a way of control and domination?
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Now
to the issue of marriage. In
March 2017 I was in Zambia for only 1 week to get the tribal and civil
marriages done with (a civil marriage was required to bring
her to
Canada). As far as the tribal marriage was concerned, I was instructed
to pay the
dowry to Martin. The civil marriage was conducted that
same or the next day, and had as its basis the tribal marriage.
Chipo lied about loving me, her only interest was material
gain, a
ticket to Canada, and sperm. This tribal marriage was a fraud, with
Martin and Chipo's mother: Jane as the two other key players. As part
of the payment of the dowry was my right to bring any problem in the
marriage to
Chipo's mother Jane, yet when I followed thru with bringing my
complaint to her, she automatically rejected it. Follow the money. (and
the sperm) |
1-2-2025 I
am still deprived of Asher with no communcation with him. It is
emotional torture what she has done: to shut my son
totally our of
my life and make Asher suffer also to be without his father who he
loves and misses, and needs, and mourns in his own way.
April 8th. I have been refused
permission
to be with my own son of his birthday (April 24) as if I need
permission! Who does she think she is? God? I am also refused to be
told his address so I cannot send him a birthday gift, and know
nothing about him and am still cut off from him.
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she and her family in Zambia ("Bible believing" Adventists)
have used me for as much as they want get from me, and I have
remaining with me here what I have in my locker at the
homeless shelter. But
they are all "Christians" and attend church. What a wonderful religion
these people have! Dosn't it make you want to join their church?
Halleluiah! Praise the Lord! Go to hell! |
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283 (1) Everyone who, being the parent, guardian or person having the
lawful care or charge of a child under the age of 14 years, takes,
entices away, conceals, detains, receives or harbours that child,
whether or not there is an order referred to in subsection 282(1) in
respect of the child, with intent to deprive a parent, guardian or any
other person who has the lawful care or charge of that child, of the
possession of that child, is quilty of (a) an indictable offence and is liable to imprisonment for a term not exceeding ten years; or (b) an offence punishable on summary conviction. |
This denying me
of being able to raise my son continued to this day, as does her theft
of my personal property, which she has been depriving me access to, both of which have been continuing for more
than 2 years. To hell with me: homeless and destitute and physical issues to
deal with.
What a wonderful religion these people have! Amen?
Please protest against Chipo by contacting her personally: 780-531-7603 csiamafuwa@yahoo.com or her place of employment which is Bethel Happy Daycare that someone who has done what she has done is not setting a good example and shd not be working at a child care facility. Bethel's email address is info@bethelhappydaycare.com